Let's be an Amoeba

I am a circle
I am a triangle
I am a quadrilateral
I am an oval
I am a star
But what shape are you?
I am all shapes...
I am a shape shifter
Change is the only constant for me
I am an Amoeba!

I am re-learning some rudimentary terms these days with my kindergarten kids, which I had obliviously jilted off my mind. We read about Living, Non-Living and Growing recently. 'Living' and 'Changing' are by and large synonymous. You can't live without changing. This is a fundamental principle followed by one and all. From single cell life like amoeba to the most complex versions of life like humans, we are changing every single moment and this is called 'Growing'. But is it possible that we have forgotten these basic things happening to us? We see ourselves in the mirror daily and recognize the image to be the same year after year. The gradient of change is so slow that it seems imperceptible. We forget that we are invariably altering. We forget that every next second we are a new version of ourselves. Some cell inside us changed, died or was born as we crossed over that fraction of a second. Even now as I type each letter my cells degenerate, regenerate and restyle themselves. When everything about us is involuntarily buzzing on the lines of change perpetually, Why have we stopped accepting change voluntarily? 

We fear change. We are comfortable in our no-change cozy cocoons . We try to shy away from the very attribute that supports our existence. We try to duck behind 'no-new beginning' zone. We make ourselves so comfortable with a particular place, situation, job or way of living that we do not want to rise up to any challenge life rolls towards us. We just want to stick to something...be it a miserable job, an unhappy marriage, an abusive relationship or even a city for that matter. We shun the very thing that defines our existence - Change. We actually live in a 'pause' mode.

The values and beliefs, notions and fashions change with each generation. But the seniors do not want to accept the ideology of gen-next. This tug of war between parent and progeny thwarts the natural flow of change in life and society. Even the Languages, Cultures, modes of communication, food habits all transmute and evolve. We can not arrest the momentum of Life and Living. Then why do we hold ourselves from this natural evolution? Why do we live in controlled patches? Why don't we embrace the whole Earth and infinite Sky as the domain of our Life. We are the 'living' and 'moving' Dams in ourselves trying to control the flow of Life. 

Stability is the foundation on which Life stands. Stability of this supporting space, continuity of our own breath and vital functions is cardinal. But it does not require us to cohere to something eternally. This stable base (upon which life grows) itself is floating, spinning and revolving  incessantly. Everything in this Universe is roving, emerging or diverging. Anything to do with Kinetics. Anything but Static. When the entire cosmos bows down and embraces change, why are we so reluctant about it? 

If we zoom in our receptive senses and observe, a single celled life "amoeba" too projects outward and grips life, changing its shape in this process. It not only survives but thrives in its changing identity and shape. If a single cell can accept and  acknowledge change as the way of Life, why can't we humans - the most complex organisms on Earth? 

If we talk about Matter...though its devoid of any life yet it imbibes the law of perpetual change. Mountains break down to rocks, rocks to boulders, boulders to pebbles and pebbles to sand. Sand in turn accumulates and rises as Mountains again under huge pressure over  a long period of time. A full circle of Nature. Water keeps rolling in all three states of gas, liquid and solid. Trees keep growing from and going back to the soil they came from. To cut the long story short all Life and Matter are governed by Change.  

Let's accept and approbate the gospel of life i.e. 'Change' and shrug off that which makes us inert. Come let's work out our bodies to move and grow wings on our strong backs to fly and chase happiness. Let our bodies be units of countless amoebae to propel, shift and grow. Let's be shape shifters and ditch all that makes us numb, sad and dissatisfied souls. Let's not wriggle in the swamps of misery. Let's not be stuck in hopeless agonized situations but reach out to 'Change' and move on with our lives to a better version of ourselves. Let's be an amoeba of change. 

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I wish to see how many of you all are ready to cast off inertia and leap for a positive change. Please oblige your keyboards and fill up the comment box with your views :)

Keep evolving,
Alka Tiwari.